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Five Minute Friday: Familiar

As I took this photo at the end of my family's Thanksgiving meal yesterday, someone asked me if I had taken a before photo. I said not this year but I had one from last year. My mom said, "It probably looks pretty much the same as this year," like it was something bad. On the contrary, there is a comfort in the familiar. It wouldn't seem like Thanksgiving without the blueberry salad my Grandma always made or the sweet potatoes with the marshmallows.

I love the familiar of my parents' home. It is where they have lived since their wedding night in 1958. They have added on to the house and just this month they put in central heat and air but it hasn't changed much at all in those almost 59 years. It is still full of love and wonderful memories.

The familiarity of this home centers me. I can have a rotten day and can spend an evening there and it sets everything right. Being with people who know me so well is such a comfort. There is no struggle with the familia…

Five Minute Friday: Excuse

I had the day off today and even though I had all of the time in the world, I thought of a ton of excuses not to do this post. I had to do work for my second job, I needed to do laundry, I couldn't think of the right photo.

But just like what this photo says, I needed to scoop the poop and quit making excuses. If I want to be a writer, I need to write. Quit overthinking it, quit being scare about it, and write.

Maybe I am intimidated because I live about an hour away from The Pioneer Woman. How could I ever be as successful as her? How could I be the kind of blogger that she is?

But isn't that an excuse, isn't that a load of poop?

Comparing ourselves to others is just that - poop. We are fearfully and wonderfully made to be us, not anyone else. Each of us has unique things to offer. We shouldn't make excuses for that, we should embrace it.

Excuses are so much easier than action. But what I have come to discover recently is that once you take action, you find yourself …

31 Days: Rest

This is me in a tiny hotel room in London. What I wanted to do was rest because it had been so many hours since I had left home but there was a huge city to see and no time to rest.

I want to look at my life like this. I've spent too much time sitting on my couch resting. I want to write on this blog more, I want to work on my house, I want to cook for myself. There is so much out there to do. Too much to spend time on my couch resting.

You would think that after spending 31 days writing that I would want to rest. But it has invigorated me to write more.

I hope you will continue to visit my blog to see what I do instead of rest.

31 Days: Refine

I feel like this 31 Days has refined my writing skills and refined my desire to do this blog. And it has refined my faith in myself that I can chose a task and accomplish it. I think this is the first time I've not missed a day of posts.

It feels good to get back to this blog and I've been refining my ideas of what I want it to do with it in the future.

And now before I use the word refine one more time, I will end this 30th day post.

31 Days: Follow

Today was the fall carnival at my church and I am so glad that 12 people decided to follow my pleas and decorate cars for the trunk or treat. There is an elementary school only blocks from my church that has almost 1000 students. Many of those students live in neighborhoods that aren't safe for trick or treating so my church hosts this fun, safe event for them.

As followers of Christ, we should reach out to those around us and do what we can for them. Even it that is just a cake walk, some face painting, and bags of candy, I hope that the kids who came to the carnival today felt God's love for them through an afternoon of fun.

31 Days: Connect

When I visited Canada for an earth science editors' conference last month, the hotel I stayed at had several inuksuks around the property. According to the Canadian Encyclopedia website, in Inuktitut, the term inuksuk means "to act in the capacity of a human." What is more human than wanting to connect with people?

One of the best things about attending professional conferences is connecting with people who do the same kind of job as you. If you go to the same conference every year, you build strong connections with people that always attend with you. It is wonderful to have connections like that if you have a question or need a second opinion on a problem. It's essential if you work in an environment where you are the only person who does your kind of job.

It is scary to go into those situations to connect with people. Walking into a room where I don't know anyone or I do know them and their job title intimidates me can be terrifying. It is so rewarding though.…