Being raised Baptist, I knew very little about Ash Wednesday
or Lent. I knew that my Catholic friend Judy didn’t eat meat on Fridays but
that was the extent of my knowledge. It wasn’t until I was an adult that I knew
about the imposition of ashes. I was so embarrassed when I pointed out to a
patron of the library I worked at that she had something on her forehead. She
could have been a little nicer with her explanation but it prompted me to do
more research on the subject.
This will be my second Ash Wednesday to attend a service
where the palms from Palm Sunday have been burned in the church courtyard. This
year I’ll know better what to expect and hopefully I’ll be more able to
concentrate on the words and responses than worrying about whether I’m doing it
right.
As far as giving something up for Lent, I’m going to give up
a behavior instead of something tangible like chocolate. I talk to myself. A
lot. I’m never lonely because the sound of my own voice keeps me company.
Talking to myself is how I work through things, how I rehearse difficult
conversations, and unfortunately how I vent. I’ve noticed lately that I can get
myself worked up about a situation just by thinking about it and verbalizing
how I’m feeling. The other morning, I got myself so agitated by my train of
thought that I could feel my back tightening from the anxiety.
So this year for Lent, instead of talking to myself, I’m
going to talk to God. When I’m tempted to complain about a co-worker, I’m going
to pray for her. When I rehearse things in my head, I’m going to turn those
challenges over to God instead of imagining conversations that I probably will
never have.
Spending these 40 days looking at why I deal with stress and
anxiety the way I do is a perfect companion to my One Word: Up. My goal for
that one word for 2013 was to do a better job looking up to God
for guidance, love, and approval. When I try to work through things on my own,
I’m not doing that. I hope that in looking inward to why I’m so critical and
learning to pray for people instead of be frustrated by them will also help me
in another one of my goals for 2013 – to be the wonderfully made person God
created me to be.
It may be a little lonely for me at
first, but I’m guessing God will be more than happy to keep me company.
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