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31 Days: Inspire


I skipped posting yesterday because I wasn't sure I could write a positive post. It would have been my 25th wedding anniversary and I just wasn't feeling too positive. The sting of the rejection, even 10 years after my divorce, hits me hard on milestone days like that.

Today is better, and the positive thing is that over the years, it has taken less time for things to feel better.

One of the biggest reasons I started this blog was to inspire people who were going through something similiar. I wanted to inspire people to move on and to look at the hurtful experience in a positive light.

So I'm back at it for 31 Days of positive posts, hoping that I will succeed at inspiring people, even if it is something as simple as knowing that the bounce back time of a bad memory does get shorter if you can just stay positive.

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