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31 Days: Trust


This is me and my sister a few years ago. My sister is one of the people I trust most in this world. She has been my best friend since birth, she is my travel buddy, and she is my rock.

Every Thursday night we have dinner together. We walk, lift weights, then go out to eat. It's never anything fancy but I treasure those evenings. We catch up on what's been going on and even if it's just what's been going on with our favorite tv shows, it's the best part of the week.

A few months ago, my car was in the shop for several days. Even though it was my sister's summer vacation, she would get up, come get me, and drive me to work. She would also come pick me up at the end of the day.

She was the first person in my family I told that my husband had moved out. She didn't say a word, she just hugged me and at that moment, I trusted that I would be ok.

I don't trust many people. I have been betrayed by friends more times than I care to count. But my sister, I trust her with everything. I just hope that some day I can return the favor for everything that she has done for me.


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